Dating how long before sex
“But if a guy likes you, having sex with him will only make him more interested!
” Hitting the sheets after only a couple of dates is not just a guy thing.
“For me, it can happen as early as the second date,” says Cate, 26, Boston, MA.
“Good sex is just as important as good conversation, and I think it’s important to find out how sexually compatible you are together.” Still other singles don’t adhere to either the just-do-it or wait-till-later camps.
While there are no hard-and-fast rules, men and women do rely on certain signposts to know when they’re ready for sex with someone new.Here’s how to tell when the time is right for an amazing night.* Many people give a green light to sex once they know they’re in an exclusive relationship.The key word is know — not assume, or guess or hope.Explains Leslie, 30, of Madison, NJ: “I’m self-conscious about my body as it is, so I know that when I feel like unabashedly ripping my clothes off in front of him, I’ve reached a safe place.” Getting to this point is a gradual process.“I like to have a few kissing sessions, sometimes clothed, other times partially clothed, to get used to the idea of being naked,” she says.“It’s emotionally comforting to know the person you’re sharing your body with isn’t bedding someone else in his spare time,” explains Dana, 25, from Brooklyn, NY.“It makes sex more passionate and meaningful.” For other people, sex comes before a serious commitment — in fact, having sex is the very way they figure out whether they want to hang around for the long haul. C., explains it this way: “I’m not a dog, but I am a guy.Few moments in any relationship are as exciting, scary and sweet as the first time you do the deed.For some people, bedding down happens on date number one; for others, not until vows are said.Whatever it is, it gets some single people ready to head to bed.“If the guy can make me laugh hard, he’s pretty much sealed the deal,” says Michele, 43, from Akron, OH.