Sex dating rules
If you are not promiscuous or such lifestyles don’t align with your values, that is fine, but please don’t judge.Respectfully acknowledge your different values so you can part ways and each find someone more in line with your values I share this here with the hope that it may help folks find comfort when dating and entering into a new relationship...Women just need to be upfront, what men hate more than anything is to be deceived.#2 Playing Hard to get --- I don't have time for that, besides its just a deceptive as the #1 good-girl act.I went deep inside of myself to where I truly reside and stayed there, peaceful and still.
For one thing, I think it's really silly that men are expected to be the ones to pursue a woman and be the one to ask if she wants to marry him.I can sense that others are more comfortable in my presence as well and that too is deeply rewarding.I can finally see how much I DO have to offer to a partner and look so very forward to a mutually satisfying relationship. I am single, yet learning about how to be comfortable in my own skin so when I am confident enough to venture back out into the dating world, I will attract someone who is seeing the real me and not some type of illusion I'm trying to hide behind.and Claude Steiner's Scripts People Live might be a good place to start for anyone interested.In a nutshell, in TA scripts are different than you've got them -- they result from longterm persistent low level programming by the parent of the opposite sex. (This model goes back to before the disintegration of the two-parent family began.) So a mother will tend to script a son to be like his maternal grandfather, possibly emphasizing his good qualities and excising his bad ones, depending on the mother's relationship with her father and her adult perspective.Your comment seems to direct a lot of hostility towards women.You seem to be waiting to judge them or “catch” them trying to downplay their sexuality for fear of your judgement.Keep writing and get this stuff in the main stream where people can learn to stop shooting their selves in the foot.I'm glad to see that someone has some common sense! My thoughts on #1 is, you can wait all you want, if she's promiscuous, I'll figure it out before her phony waiting period is over.But because playing a game necessarily translates into masking your authentic self, these rules cannot deliver the kind of genuine partnership on which true love is built.Instead, following bogus rules when it comes to dating invariably leads to one of two ill-fated consequences: Playing the game culminates in a kind of bait-and-switch in which one member of the new couple tends to feel duped; or one person continues to operate behind a façade so that he or she never becomes fully known by a partner and ends up locked in a one-sided relationship. It is important to have boundaries and to not reveal more or do more than you are completely comfortable with.