When to have sex when dating
This “rule” is basically the Goldilocks approach to dating: It’s about figuring out the time to have sex that’s “just right.” Is there any scientific backing for this idea, though?And is the third date really when most people start having sex anyway?
popularized the idea of the “three date rule”—the idea that, when it comes to sex, there’s supposed to be a short waiting period.
According to the singles whom Allen has encountered, boomers generally play by far different dating rules than young, 20-something daters.
"I spoke with a young man in his early to mid-20s who told me that if he didn't have sex on the first or second night, he'd move on to the next person," she recalls.
The goal is to give you a chance to evaluate the other person before hopping into bed.
Plus, you don’t want to give the other person the impression that you’re over-eager, but you also don’t want to wait too long to start having sex in case it turns out you’re incompatible.